But Jethro was careful about how he gave Moses counsel. He didn’t jump in as a know-it-all guy. He didn’t tell his son-in-law, “Hey, you’re doing everything wrong here, what’s your problem?” That’s what most fathers-in-law would like to tell their sons-in-law.

Jethro came humbly and with words of praise. He pointed out Moses’ strengths and in a way said, “Moses, I think there is a way for you to be used of God in a more efficient capacity.” And Moses, because he respected Jethro as a wise man of God, listened and followed his advice. Jethro might have been the only one whom Moses fully trusted to give him advice.

I think this gives us a good pattern for mentoring and counsel, especially with members of our own family. Especially from one generation to the next. It’s wise to temper our words and try to accentuate that person’s strengths. Praise them where they need to be praised. Couch your advice in terms they understand.